Year One

Monday, June 25, 2012

Today Nathan and I are celebrating one year of marriage. One year! It's incredible to me how quickly the year flew. It seems like only a few weeks ago we were making the final preparations for our big day!

While it was a beautiful day for both of us and our families, I know it was only the beginning of our story. Even these past 366 (it was a leap year, you know), have been filled with both joy and sadness. We've experienced so much in the past twelve months that have made us a stronger couple... a stronger team.

Our plans to celebrate this anniversary include going out to dinner and eating the top tier to our wedding cake. While this isn't much to some people, it is more than enough for us. We're together. We're healthy. We're happy.


So as I end this blog post, I look forward to the future with the best possible companion I could imagine having by my side. I've heard people say the first year is the hardest. Well, if that's the case, we've got the next 75 years in the bag.




Love's Looking Good on You

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

In typical Angie-fashion, I am turning to other means of entertainment in order to postpone efforts spent on lesson plans for tomorrow. AKA - I'm procrastinating. Let it be known, however, that I do not normally wait until the last minute to plan. Today is a rare exception. Valentine's Day has completely thrown me off!

Speaking of Valentine's day, Nathan and I were able to celebrate the day together as husband and wife. It's still so weird to say that, even though it's been eight months. Husband. Wife. Marriage. Yikes, I'm grown up! Sort of. Anyway, Nathan even got me a card that is to his "wife." I am lame and didn't do so well in the card department. As in, there were zero cards given on my part. Whoops!

To be honest, I have always loved Valentine's Day. Sure, I get when other people say, "Why do you need a special day to celebrate your love? Do it every day!" True statement. Love should be celebrated every day. However, if I'm playing Devil's Advocate here (and c'mon. Anyone who knows me knows I'm pretty good at that role), I'd like to ask, why do we celebrate individual birthdays? Every day should be a celebration of life. Why do we celebrate Christmas? Celebrate Jesus every day. Wow, this is getting deep. My point is that I am truly a girly girl and love having a special day that I get to spend immersed in feelings of love.

My love for the day of love is probably aided by the fact that I am a teacher and get to spend Valentine's day with my third graders. It's a HUGE holiday to those 8 year olds, by the way. Almost like Christmas. It literally takes over our day, as we make our "mailboxes" and spend time handing out and enjoying valentines from classmates. Yesterday, I was overwhelmed by the kindness my class showed for one another. I also was amazed that I didn't hear the words, "Ew. You LIKE me? Gross!" a single time.  Successful day.

 
Aren't our mailboxes adorable? Their instructions were to use mainly hearts to make an animal. Since we are currently studying animals, I tried to make it instruction-based. Go me.

I know that I have spent numerous words expressing the love and gratitude I have for my husband, and he is another reason why I love Valentine's Day. Historically speaking (in the sense of Nathan and Angie), we have not been huge Valentine's Day gift-givers. I believe that a "special" dinner or a simple card is a superior way to celebrate your love for one another, and I am fortunate that Nathan feels the same way. This year, money is fairly tight at the House of Harris, but we both wanted our first Valentine's Day as husband and wife to be special. What other way to be special than to get your craft on? This happens to be exactly what the both of us did.

A while back, I saw an idea on Pinterest that I KNEW would be the perfect gift for our first Valentine's Day as married people. I had our wedding song printed on nine 8 x 8" cardstock, bought nine 8 x8" canvas frames, mod-podged the cardstock on the canvas, and voila! Beautiful, sentimental art that was super simple to make, and looks AWESOME. Seriously, people don't believe I made this. Psh.
This will be going above our bed as soon as we can get our hands on a laser-level. I say we like I'm actually going to participate in the hanging. Sike.

Nathan also was super crafty, inspired by another Pinterest Post he had seen. I came home from school to this BEAUTIFUL, unique, hand-made frame. Nathan even selected the pictures he wanted on display.

Seriously, how cool is this? I also think it's such a practical way to display a lot of pictures. If I want to change one out, all I have to do follow these simple steps - Step 1. Unclip clothespin. Step 2. Take down picture. Step 3. Clip new picture to twine using clothespin. Done! No more taking a frame down, undoing those finicky little clasps, taking the back out, putting the picture in, putting the back in, redoing those finicky clasps, rehanging on the nail that is always so rebellious. This process is particularly distressing when you are 4'11" and can generally not reach the nail that is being uncooperative. #shortpeopleproblems

Overall, it was a perfect, beautiful day. My students were wonderful, my husband was amazing, and the seven boxes of chocolates I received from students yesterday didn't hurt either. Life is good.

House of Harris

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Quick question. It's 67 degrees outside. What month is it? a.) May b.)June c.)January d.)March
If this were a question I was asking my students, I would tell them to slash the trash. Get rid of the answers you know are not true - the ones that are completely ridiculous. In this case, however, slashing the trash would mean getting rid of the correct answer. Yes, it's currently January 7 and the weather outside was perfect. Perfectly confusing. How often do you get to throw open the windows and let the breeze blow through your house in JANUARY? I was telling Nathan that tonight should be a grilling night. Of course, because it is still January and in the always-befuddled state of Virginia, the daytime temperature may be three degrees shy of 70, but the temperature that comes with night will be close to freezing. Not to mention this week has been mind-blowing with the highs and lows. Just four days ago I was wearing my rabbit-trimmed bomber hat and carrying a blanket out to recess because it was 37 degrees at 2 pm.

While I enjoyed the weather today, I still can't help wishing for snow. Every morning when I watch the news I'm eyeballing the extended forecast looking for any sign that wonderful white fluff might be heading our way. There's not even been a hint that the conditions could be possible. My mother-in-law says the farmer's almanac is calling for a big one January 31. I'll keep my finger's crossed for that.

So now for the customary reflection on days-gone-by, also known as the year 2011. Also also known as The Year of the Wedding. It was a tremendously good year for us. We had the perfect wedding and reception, thanks entirely to our wonderful family and friends and I had a smooth transition to being a Vaughan AND a Harris. Nathan and I traveled our of country for the first time ever and together to Antigua for the best honeymoon ever. We made it back safe and sound (although barely) in time to celebrate the Fourth of July with friends, and then one month later we adopted our Atlas, the most awkward, endearing dog I've ever met (besides Gisele, who is really the most beautiful, michievious dog. They've earned different titles). Essentially, 2011 was the year we became the Harris Family.
Insert picture-perfect family portrait here:
Ok, so we don't have one of those yet, but I do have one with half of our family


Speaking of Atlas, that little turkey is almost seven months old. It's so hard to believe he was a "tiny" 17-pound pup when we got him at three months. At last weigh in last week, he was 113 pounds. The scary thing is he still has a lot of growing to do! While he is a giant monster, I am excited to see how big he really will get. Someone said to us he is a "conversation piece" because anyone who comes around him will want to talk to him or will talk about him. We took him to PetsMart last weekend and as we were walking in, a family with a little girl was walking in to. The man asked the little girl if she wanted to ride the pony. Haha!

2011 will be a hard year to top, but we are very eager to see what 2012 has in store for us. Happy New Year, y'all!

Live, love, eat!

Monday, November 21, 2011

I am thoroughly excited that Thanksgiving is three days away! It is my favorite holiday of the year, although Christmas does come in close second! Seriously though, I love Thanksgiving for many reasons. I love to eat, I love to spend time with my family, and I love to eat. Oh, I already said that? Well.

I really enjoy the quality time I get to spend with my entire family without the pressures of purchasing the "perfect gift." I know that's not what Christmas is supposed to be about, but inevitably it always is. Thanksgiving, however, comes without paying that price - figuratively and literally! I also really like the opportunity, or reminder rather, to reflect upon what I'm thankful for. Let's take a looksies.

This year I am thankful for...
My husband. Nathan has been an incredible support system for me in the storms I've weathered this past year. And he still decided to marry me through all of my tantrums so I'm very thankful for that! Really though, he is amazing, and I'm thankful he is in my life; thankful I get to call him my husband. Take a moment and let that sentimental mush soak in... and we're moving on!

My family. I really am fortunate to have the family I have. I love each member and am able to recognize the unique qualities they add to my life. I am incomplete without them! I have a pretty outstanding relationship with my parents, and my relationships with my brother and sister are quite superb. This year, I am especially thankful for my mother and her courage and strength. She truly is second to none an I can only aspire to be half the mom she has been to me! I love ya, Mom!

My fur children - Gisele and Atlas. Yes, they drive me crazy but I love them to pieces. Gisele has been my steady girl since she was four weeks old, and she's currently sneaking in the door to her seventh year. Atlas has been an endearing mess these past few months, but he is definitely my comic relief! I have grown to love him to the moon and back! Together, they are hell on padded feet but we wouldn't have it any other way.


My job. I know that I am very fortunate to have a job in this economy, and I was lucky to jump into a career-type position directly out of college. I am thankful that I am able to do something I love for a living! Continuing on that track...

My class! Man, do I love the kids I get to spend eight hours a day with! Sometimes they can drive me bonkers, but when they give me the random hugs my heart.literally.melts. Seriously. I really wouldn't trade my kiddos for anything in the world, and I'm thankful I have the bunch I do.

Macaroni and cheese. Without you, Velveeta individual cups of deliciousness, I would not have lunch 75 percent of the time. I am thankful for your nourishment!

Pinterest / Blog world. I am thankful for the Internet and such to help fuel the creativity I sometimes am lucky enough to have course through my veins. Haha!

Ok, I could really go on forever about everything I'm thankful for (like the warm, fuzzy slipper socks keeping my feet toasty right now, and my XM radio, and mountain dew!), but I think I'll stop the list there.
Bottom line? I'm thankful for a lot. How about you?

A serious post

Thursday, September 8, 2011

It's been approximately two and a half weeks since E-Day and our community is still slowly trying to find its balance. The school I teach at has been very fortunate that there was little to no structural damage done to the building, but other schools were not so lucky. Because of the movement, students have yet to resume school, but a return is slated for this upcoming Monday. Fingers, toes, and eyeballs crossed for a relatively easy transition - both for them and me!

Anyway, enough of that and on to more uplifting stories. Because it's been a few weeks - and frightening ones as that - our school had its second open house tonight. I called it "Open House v2.0." I didn't quite have the attendance I would have liked BUT I did have a surprising visitor that totally made my night.

Right as open house was supposed to be ending, I heard a family in the hallway discussing which rooms were third grade rooms. I didn't pay the conversation much attention until I heard someone ask another person in the hallway, "Where is Ms. Vaughan's room?" This piqued my interest because a)I was curious to know who was looking for me who didn't already know where to find me and b)this person used my maiden name. The answerer of the question directed the family into my room, and when they entered I was completely blown away. In walks this little girl who was in the kindergarten class I student taught in two years ago. I'd like to point out this school is a few counties over in a suburban area. I immediately recognized her, and she I, and she literally ran across the room and jumped in my arms. It turns out this little girl saw me at school on E-Day and recognized me "by my hair" (which she assured me, was a good thing, thank goodness) and was determined to find me tonight.

The simple fact that she remembered who I was AND my name, and had such an ecstatic reaction to me really gives me chills. I mean, this girl was a six year old kindergartner in another county the last time I saw her two years ago, and she was able to place and name me out of context. Wow... Just wow.

I'll admit. This year has already been somewhat of a struggle for me as I try to find my footing as my own teacher. I don't have college lesson plan formats or intern supervisors evaluating every idea I have or even a collaborative teacher to oversee my thoughts and guide my processing. I've always had an idea of the type of teacher I want to be, but bringing that teacher to life has been challenging. And while I know it will continue to be a challenge - and maybe always will be - the interaction I had tonight with a former student was so refreshing. Clearly, I must have done something right.

5.9

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Today has been an interesting and eventful day to say the least.

It started out as any normal Tuesday (I hate Tuesdays, by the way. They are the most awful day of the week). I woke up late, left the house late, and arrived at work later than I like to. My students and I worked diligently through the lessons and made it to our favorite time of the day - lunch, followed directly by recess!

I love afternoon recess. For one, it's generally a beautiful time of the day. Today was no exception. It was gorgeous and sunny out, even though the weather was just a tad on the hot side. I sat at my self-assigned spot on the red bench in front of the playground - prime view of children - and talked to my colleague, Tiffany, as she sat facing the opposite direction. Someone has to supervise the blacktop, you know. While watching students, we were making small talk about how hot it was outside and her son's upcoming birthday.

All of a sudden (and I do mean all of a sudden), we heard this loud rumble and everything started to shake. It was as though someone picked up my world and started shaking it up like a snow globe. And the noise... I don't think I can accurately describe how deafening it was. The rumbling seemed to last forever, even though I know it was probably only tens of seconds.

Now, those of you who know me well, know that I am not good in a crisis situation. I tend to panic, overreact, yada, yada, yada. Today, however, being responsible for 21 third graders made something in me click. As the kids were screaming and getting off the playground as quickly as thier little bodies would let them, I switched into super-teacher mode and lined them up on the blacktop, away from any potential falling objects. At that point, I didn't have any idea what was going on. Growing up in Louisa, I've always been aware of the danger that the North Anna Power Plant presents. I'm not going to lie... my first thought was that the Power Plant had blown up. I have been through two other earthquakes, both in Louisa, and those were absolutely NOTHING compared to this.

Because we were at recess, the third grade team didn't have anything. I didn't have a phone, my emergency bag, a pen... I had no idea what time it was, I couldn't let my husband and family know I was safe, I couldn't find out if they were safe. It was truly a gut-wrenching situation. So, we had the students lined up on the blacktop, and had them sit. Aftershocks kept rolling through, and with each one I, myself, started to panic more and more. But I did my best to not let it show to the students. I comforted the ones who were upset and scared with hugs and stories about other earthquakes I've been in and how during those times all of my family and friends made it out safely, just like I know they did this time. I reminded them that we could actually be LEARNING at that point and we should look at this like an extended recess and enjoy the sun. I tried to keep their minds preoccupied with other fun ideas and thoughts, and I promised them I would not go home until I knew each and every one of them was safe with their families.

We were finally told that the buses would be arriving shortly to take sudents home, and some parents were coming to pick their students up. Students in my class were anxiously watching for any sign of someone they knew to take them home to safety. Parents would come and give us pieces of information of what they'd seen - "The Mineral Post Office collapsed." or "I hope your house is in better shape than mine." We learned that phones weren't working, the town of Louisa was a disaster, and the earthquake could be felt in Canada and the Domincan Republic.

We continued to wait outside for what seemed like an eternity for the buses to get there, and when they finally did, we put students on the buses with just the clothes on their backs. We were literally not able to go back inside to get anything.

After we made sure the students were safely on their way home, the faculty and staff had to wait outside. We were hot. We were thirsty. Like the students, we weren't able to go back inside. That meant we couldn't leave, as our keys and licenses were in our purses inside our classrooms. Our Administration let us know they would tell us when we were able to retrieve our belongings, so we were left to do what we seemed to have perfected this afternoon - wait. Finally, we were asked to make a list of where our stuff could be located in our rooms. Although we were unable to go inside, our Administration would retrieve our belongings so we could go home to our own families.

When I finally got my phone, I was overwhelmed by the number of people who had textes/called/emailed me to see if my students and I were ok. I still couldn't place a phone call, but I could send text messages out so I considered myself lucky. When I made it to my house I was scared of what I would find. My first priority was to make sure Gisele and Atlas were safe. Gisele was outside, and didn't seem to be effected at all. She was normal Gisele. I let myself in my house to get Atlas and began the initial inspection of our stuff. We actually didn't fare as badly as I thought we might have. We had a handful of picture frames down, some broken glass in the bedroom, and our back blinds had fallen. You could definitely tell things were out of place, but nothing had fallen from our cabinets, from shelves, etc. Still, we were without power and I was without my husband, so I scooped Atlas up and gave him a big hug (which he affectionately returned with some loving wimpers), and head off to my parents house.

Once at my parents house, I was able to sit down and watch news coverage of what actually happened. I was super shocked to discover that Mineral had been the epicenter of a 5.8 earthquake that rocked the east coast. I was astonished at pictures of the local Food Lion that made national news. It was just overwhelming.

Not too long ago, we received a phone call from our Superintendent telling us that students will not be returning to school until Tuesday, September 6. Teachers will not be returning until at least this Friday. That call coincided with a 4.2 magnitude aftershock. I think they made a good decision.

So. To sum it all up, here are the lessons I learned today:
1. Always carry your cell phone and purse. You never know when you'll need it.
2. If you're a teacher, always carry your emergency bag.
3. Keep a case of water and Mountain Dew in your car in case you're stranded outside and get thirsty.
4. Throw a bag of sunscreen in your purse. :) This blogger is one fried fox after spending hours in the sun.
5. Be thankful. It could have been worse.

A Monster Named Atlas

Friday, August 12, 2011

It's hard to believe that when I last wrote we were anticipating the arrival of our puppy, Atlas. Well, Atlas certainly arrived and has left no moment since untouched.

The super clumsy, timid "little" (I use the word little loosely... he was 17 pounds at 7 weeks) puppy we brought home nearly two weeks ago is now a 20+ pound 9 week old... with an attitude. In the words of Lady Gaga, he's our little monster. Of course, we have probably set him up to be that way. In fact, I know we have. On the second night, the poor fella wailed and tried so frantically to get out of his kennel that he ripped a staple in his ear. I pulled him out to examine him further and set him on the bed, where he promptly curled up with Nathan and fell asleep. Nathan looked at me and said, "Just let him stay." So stay I let him, and he slept through the night. A welcomed instant relief to sleep-deprivation. Sadly, in the nights to follow we found ourselves so spoiled by the instantaneous fix to a shrieking dog (seriously. He shrieks. There's no other word to describe it.) in a kennel that we allowed him to stay on the bed. In reality it wasn't the best idea. Now that he's grown so much and is basically as long as a small human - i.e., me - it doesn't make for comfortable sleeping arrangement. Add in the fact that he's become more restless at night and is constantly trying to figure out a way to leap out of the old elevated bed we have, and we're back to square one with a loss of sleep.

Nathan and I began compiling a list of ways we could break him of his kennel-crying. We do kennel him during the day when we're both at work, but neither of us are here to hear the commotion. A friend told Nay that she literally had to sleep in the floor with the dog in the kennel. So, the other night when we decided Atlas could no longer sleep in the bed with us, Nathan moved to the floor. Voila. No more crying. Could it really have been that easy? Apparently so. While it was only three nights ago that we tempted fate with this little trick he has gone in his kennel willingly and with the exception of a small whimper or two, has gone straight to bed without yelling at us. Hooray!

Although I will say that being in such close proximity to him while he slept allowed me to learn a few adorable quirks about him. For instance, he dreams all the time and he literally runs. He sleeps with his eyes half open, and when he was first with us, he would start suckling in his sleep.

So since we have, at this time, conquered the kennel, our next step is house training. Good luck with that one, right?

Our other dog, Gisele, couldn't have made us more proud with her acceptance of Atlas into our family. Gisele has always been a little leery of new dogs, and has been an "only child" for over six years. Nathan and I were both very apprehensive of their first meeting, but it went exceptionally well, and has gone that way since. For the most part. Gisele lets Atlas eat her food with her, pounce all over her when they're playing, and lets him have all of her toys. She does not tolerate him, however, when he bites her ears or her tail and quickly paw-slaps him into place, though he usually attempts it again immediately after crying.

Nathan and I are both very excited about Atlas and love having him in our family. We can't wait to watch him as he grows into his HUGE bear paws. I'll probably rave/rant about him in future posts, but I promise to try to not make him the center of every one. :)